Reviewer Michelle Kaye Malsbury:
Michelle was born in Champaign, IL. Currently, she resides in Asheville, NC
and is in her second year of doctoral studies at Nova Southeastern
University in Ft. Lauderdale with specialization/concentration in
conflict resolution and peace studies. She has over six hundred
articles published on the web and one book published thus far with
many more in the wings. Hobbies include; reading, writing, music, and
playing with her Australian Cattle Dog, Abu.
Author: Howard C. Samuels, Psy.D.
Author: Howard C. Samuels, Psy.D.
On at least two occasions Howard found himself in rehab, but fell short of admitting that he had any problems. He was arrested a number of times much to the chagrin of his parents and family members who never quite understood how much this addiction controlled his life. His childhood was troubled because he lacked self-confidence and self-esteem in the wake of siblings, he was one of eight children, who excelled at most things they did. (2013, p.15)
When Howard began using heroin he sold marijuana to keep that addiction ripe. (2013, p.21) The problem was that he was still living under his parent’s roof. They were infuriated, but agreed that with a change in lifestyle he’d be ok. His father was an industrialist, Howard wanted to be successful at something so he created a scheme where he would go to Afghanistan to purchase drugs and sell them on an international scale. (p.23) Bad move. Again he was arrested. When he got back stateside he went to Colorado to stay with this sister who he claims helped him to kick his heroin addiction. However, losing one addiction only made more room for others. Howard began using acid and cocaine. (p.24)
For many years Howard ran into his addiction embracing it instead of confronting it and moving on. In chapter 2 of this book he speaks candidly about what makes someone an addict. (2013, pgs. 35-47) If you or someone you know exhibits any of these signs please seek help assap. “One in six Americans goes binge drinking every week.” (p.36) Other revealing statistics were: “11 percent of all eighth graders smoked marijuana in 2009.” (p.38) “…20 million people around the world are addicted to heroin.” (p.39) 40 million Americans ages twelve and over have tried cocaine at least once.” (p.40) I was shocked to read these numbers and believe you will be too.
Other chapters are dedicated to the co-dependencies that are oftentimes created in these circumstances and how to break that cycle, where to go for help and who might be the best personality type to help your addict or yourself if you are an addict. I learned a lot about addiction and the addictive personality by reading and reviewing this book too. It’s never too late to change, but the addict must want the change and not those around them in order for this rehabilitation to succeed.