Reviewer & Author Interviewer, Norm Goldman. Norm is the Publisher & Editor of Bookpleasures.com.
He has been reviewing books for the past twenty years after retiring from the legal profession.
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Norm:
Please tell our
readers a little bit about your personal and professional
background.
Maureen:
Thank you, Norm, for talking
with me! Let's see, I achieved my Ph.D in Metaphysics at the
age of 57. You can do anything if you enjoy what you are doing! I
find my calling in the Healing Arts, and I am a member of several
healing groups. I am a Reiki Master and I enjoy helping others.
We are all healers we just have to learn to use our gifts.
I
started writing years ago, and had several poems and articles
published and I put writing aside as I found I was working longer
hours and several jobs and had less time to pursue what I loved to
do. I still work a full time job in the accounting field, but I
am able to juggle my time and spend time writing. I very much
enjoy writing books and articles that help people learn to enjoy
their lives and find their spirituality. Circle Magazine has
published several of my articles. I remember my excitement when
I got my first “fan” letter!
Nevada is home with my
husband, Bob, and our fur-baby a Lab named Frankie.
Norm:
What motivated you to write As If: An 8-week Adventure
to discovering You! Whom do you believe will benefit from your book
and why?
Maureen:
I started writing AS IF to help
me on my personal journey of trying to find my Sacred Self. I
came up with a plan of sorts. What if I could live just one day
AS IF I were a patient person? I decided to live just one day
AS IF I had patience. Not just live a day with patience, I
would be a patient person. Just one day. I took it a little
further and as I lived AS IF I found I became what I was trying to
achieve. As I jotted down notes and thoughts in my journal a
book evolved and took on a life of it's own.
Anyone wanting to
live a more stress-free life and those who are looking for something
more within their life will benefit from what I call "working
the weeks" of AS IF. The concept can be modified for
children, the workplace, church or spiritual groups, just about
everyone can benefit from spending time to recognize we are all one,
we are all connected to each other and to a higher presence.
Norm:
Why do you think this is an important book at this
time?
Maureen:
Norm, we all seem to be running as
fast as we can. In today's economy, with the recession, jobs
lost, fear seems to be taking over our thoughts and our lives. Will
I be the next to lose my job? Will I be the next to lose my
house? How can I help others if I can't seem to help myself?
Those thoughts are running through the minds of many, and if we
just take some time to slow down, and reach that Sacred Space within
us, and listen, really listen to that Sacred voice that speaks to us
and through us, we can overcome the fear and live joyfully.
I
do see a change happening. I notice that people stop to talk
more. I notice that families are spending time together in the
park and just enjoying themselves instead of running to the mall, or
planting themselves in front of the television. A charity I
support gives books to children and the children write thank you
notes about how they read to their younger siblings and how much they
enjoy reading "their" books. We want to live a more
peaceful, spiritual, fulfilling life we just need the tools and
inspiration to help us find the Divine within us.
Norm:
What kind of research did you do to write this book?
Maureen:
The first research I did was what would work for me!
I was teaching some online classes when I started the book, and
one of the students was a soldier who had just returned from
Afghanistan. He e-mailed me and asked if I had any ideas on
helping him "heal his psyche.” He wanted to "return
to that former person he was before the war". I had the
outline of the book started, and I sent it to him and we began to
"work the weeks". He began to reach his Sacred Self,
and the person he was before he went to war. Several military
men and women have worked through the eight weeks of AS IF and have
found the meditations and the connections a great help to them. They
have found there is Sacredness in all and that we are all one. That
was really an eye opener for me. If a soldier who had seen the
worst of humanity was able to now see the best of humanity and
connect to the Divine within, then anyone can!
Further
research took me to the "connections"; the quotes to help
us realize that others before us have found this Divine and joy
within. I must have collected hundreds of quotes and whittled
them down to the quotes/connections in AS IF. It was actually a
lot of fun to research the "connections" ... I got to read
a lot of books!
Norm:
Did you learn anything from
writing your book and what was it?
Maureen:
I wish
I could say I immediately learned how to become a patient person!
What I can say is that I am a much more patient person than I used to
be!
Seriously, I have been amazed at the people who are
willing to do the work to change themselves and their attitudes. I
have learned that most of us want to find our Sacred Self; we want to
be loving, peaceful and joyful. We want a relationship with God
we just need to learn to use the blessings and gifts we have within
us to form that relationship.
Norm:
What
challenges or obstacles did you encounter while writing your book?
How did you overcome these challenges?
Maureen:
One
of the challenges was finding the time to sit down and write. I
so admire the parents that find the time to work the weeks of AS IF.
Many times they work full time, and take care of the house and
kids and everything else, yet they recognize that they need to go
within and find the Sacredness. And once they do, they share
that Divine nature with everyone they meet. Always the
circle-ever connected.
I overcame the challenge of finding
time by getting up a little earlier and writing on my lunch breaks at
work. I printed out whatever page I was on, and took that with
me during the day. I wrote longhand and then when I had time on
the weekend, I entered my longhand into the computer and the
manuscript.
Another challenge I had as I was putting finishing
touches on the workbook was I lost my job. I was unemployed,
and it really took me by surprise. I was also working on my
Dissertation at the time. After the initial shock, I realized
that I had been given a gift of time. I would have never given
myself time off to finish my Dissertation or my book. So
between sending out resumes and going on interviews, I took advantage
of the gift I had been given and finished my Dissertation and AS IF.
Ironically 17 days after I received my Ph.D, I was employed
again. There are no coincidences in life, and I know I was
given the gift of time to finish my degree and to finish AS IF!
Norm:
Any unique ways you'll be marketing your book that
is different from
how others authors market their books?
Maureen:
My publisher Booklocker.com has enabled their authors
to get listed with Apple's iBookstore. Shortly you will be able
to purchase AS IF with your iPad or IPhone if you have one. It
should be exciting to see if sales take off with this new
medium.
One thing I have been throwing around in my head is
teaching classes on living AS IF. The book would be our
textbook. I believe many would benefit from the classes.
Employers could use the classes to help employees. Morale
at many companies is at an all time low, and the meditations,
connections and working the weeks and living AS IF would certainly
bring morale up and make for a more healthy and productive
environment.
Norm:
Where can our readers find out
more about you and your book?
Maureen:
They can
always stop by my website www.maureendelaney.net. I also have a
page on Facebook called Living AS IF. And of course my publishers
site http://www.booklocker.com/books/4705.html Feel free to
send me an e-mail at maureen@maureendelaney.net
Norm:
Is there anything else you wish to add that we have not covered?
Maureen:
I would love to wake up one morning knowing that
thousands are "working the weeks" of AS IF. Knowing
that people would be living their Sacred Self; that people would
recognize we are all one, all connected to the greater good.
Wouldn't it be wonderful?
Thanks again and good luck
with all of your future endeavors