Reviewed by PAUL LAPPEN
Going away to college is one of the biggest, and
sometimes the most traumatic, moments of any person's
life. This book attempts to answer some of the
questions on the mind of every incoming freshman.
If the school is close enough, one of the first
questions to be answered is: To live on campus or to
commute? Living on campus presents much greater
opportunities for meeting people and getting involved
in school activities, but finances may dictate
otherwise. Then comes dealing with your roommate(s),
who may be a different religion or skin color, or even
from another country. If you and your best friend go
to the same college, just because you get along as
friends doesn't mean you'll get along as roommates.
Once you're settled, you will find out very quickly
just how independent a person you really are. Can you
really take care of yourself, or do you still depend
on your parents for cooking, laundry and to wake you
up in the morning? If the latter, be ready for a sharp
learning curve. The author also looks at alcohol
(occasional partying is alright, constant partying is
not) and sex (practice safe sex and take control of
your own body) on campus.
If possible, declare your major early; if not
possible, don't worry, you have plenty of time. You
are not limited in your course selection because of
your major. For instance, an undergraduate degree in
business is not required, or even preferred, in order
to get an MBA. A skill that all successful college
students learn very quickly is time management, when
to study and when to relax. In college, much more of
the work is done outside the classroom than in high
school, so the worst thing a person can do is to put
things off until the last minute. The author also
looks at ways to get a head start on your career. Try
an internship or study abroad for a year. Many
colleges have a Career Services office; use it. Money
is a subject near and dear to the heart of every
college student, both qualifying for financial aid and
managing finances while at school. Also covered here
are personal safety, ways to reduce stress and how not
to be a victim of the freshman fifteen (pounds, that
is).
Any college looking for a book to give their incoming
freshmen on what to expect in college would do very
well to start right here. The sections are short and
full of information and the author knows what he's
talking about. It's well worth reading.